There is a point in most relationships when one or both of the partners begin to take each other for granted. They stop worrying about how they look around the other person, how they act around the other person, and even stop caring so much about how that other person is feeling. Sometimes this happens when people just start being committed to each other and very often this happens a few months after the wedding. That where the term "the honeymoon's over" comes from. That is the point where people have started to take their partner for granted. We'll listen up guys (and gals) because I'm going to tell you how to avoid this trap, and if you're already in it I'll tell you how to get out of it. So you can see why finding cute names to call your girlfriend is merely the beginning in forming a strong bond with your mate.
First off I want to explain to you why it's so important to not take your partner for granted. You see, people are only attracted to you when you are actively applying the power inside of you to win their love and affection. While they may stay in the relationship with you for years or even decades when you don't win their love, they are only doing it out of obligation or possibly because you have children together. As soon as you think that you "have" that person and that they are not going to go anywhere you begin to lose ground and that person begins to lose attraction to you.
You must, and I repeat, MUST win that persons attention, affection and love. Men and women must both participate equally in this practice to have a happy relationship. This is the real, simple, secret to having a great life together: Treat each other as if neither one of you has any obligation to be with the other. Understand that true happiness comes from constantly having the same attraction to each other as you did when you were first dating. Start to GIVE to that other person in every way you can, and START NOW!!! Of course finding cute names to call your girlfriend (or boyfriend) is a great touch as well. So where do you start?
Friday, November 21, 2008
Cute Names to Call Your Girlfriend and Asking Yourself If You Are Lovable
You're probably reading this article looking for cute names to call your girlfriend (or boyfriend), but I have a more important question for you, are you lovable? As I've written many times before you have to WIN someone's love. I repeat, love is never given to you, you MUST win it. And it is impossible for you to be loved if you aren't lovable. Let me explain...
Many times when men and women are first in a relationship they try their best to win the love and affection of the person they are dating. They both try to look their best, act their best, be on their best behavior, be as funny and entertaining as possible, and generally try to BE THEIR BEST for the other person. This is what causes people to fall in love and the reason is that both people are wining each other's love and at the same time they are both lovable. You can only be lovable if you are at your best for your partner. If you are not try to be at your best with your significant other anymore than you are failing to win their love.
They might still have affection for you and feel very comfortable around you, but that is not the same as really being in love with you. Is this how you are feeling right now? Or do you think your boyfriend/girlfriend might be feeling this way about you? If you landed at this blog I'd say the chances are pretty good that this is true in your life. So what you can do about it? How can you get back those feelings that you had for each other when you were first together?
The answer is a simple one and is advice that I got from my grandmother who was married and deeply in love with my grandfather for over 40 years before he passed away. NEVER STOP DATING! That's it, pretty simple right? She told me that the secret to their long lasting love was that they each never took each other for granted. They both always tried to win the other's love and they were the happiest couple I've ever seen. Of course finding cute names to call your girlfriend (or boyfriend) is a great touch as well. The last question is where do you start?
Many times when men and women are first in a relationship they try their best to win the love and affection of the person they are dating. They both try to look their best, act their best, be on their best behavior, be as funny and entertaining as possible, and generally try to BE THEIR BEST for the other person. This is what causes people to fall in love and the reason is that both people are wining each other's love and at the same time they are both lovable. You can only be lovable if you are at your best for your partner. If you are not try to be at your best with your significant other anymore than you are failing to win their love.
They might still have affection for you and feel very comfortable around you, but that is not the same as really being in love with you. Is this how you are feeling right now? Or do you think your boyfriend/girlfriend might be feeling this way about you? If you landed at this blog I'd say the chances are pretty good that this is true in your life. So what you can do about it? How can you get back those feelings that you had for each other when you were first together?
The answer is a simple one and is advice that I got from my grandmother who was married and deeply in love with my grandfather for over 40 years before he passed away. NEVER STOP DATING! That's it, pretty simple right? She told me that the secret to their long lasting love was that they each never took each other for granted. They both always tried to win the other's love and they were the happiest couple I've ever seen. Of course finding cute names to call your girlfriend (or boyfriend) is a great touch as well. The last question is where do you start?
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